In this episode of the Path of the Awakened Heart podcast, I’m joined by unconditional love coach and Akashic Records teacher Judith Costa for a grounded, deeply human conversation about what happens when control no longer works.
Together, we explore how love, trust, and embodiment become living anchors during times of uncertainty, illness, loss, and transition. Judith shares candidly from her own lived experiences — including cancer, divorce, and profound life reorientation — and how these moments invited her to release perfectionism, dissolve the illusion of control, and return to trust as a way of living.
We talk about self-love beyond the mind, why control is often rooted in fear and self-abandonment, and how learning to trust life again begins in the body, not the intellect. This conversation is an invitation to soften your grip, reconnect with your inner truth, and allow life to meet you where you are.
Episode Highlights:
[04:00] – Judith speaks to how control, self-sacrifice, and perfectionism quietly disconnect us from ourselves, and why love begins when we stop managing life from fear.
[11:00] – A conversation on making self-love livable day to day, including small rituals, presence, and learning to be your own steady support rather than outsourcing safety.
[19:00] – Judith shares how the Akashic Records supported her through cancer, divorce, and financial uncertainty, offering a felt sense of trust when logic and planning fell away.
Learn more about Judith:
Judith Costa is an unconditional Love coach, Self-Love expert, seminar leader, writer, and speaker, with a Master’s degree in Analytical Psychology and Psychotherapy and an MBA. She is also a certified Akashic Records consultant and teacher, a reiki master, and a certified Happiness Trainer.
With a deep passion for personal transformation, Judith is dedicated to helping individuals break through their inner blocks to love and create a deeper, more fulfilling relationship with themselves. She believes that Self-Love is the foundation for unlocking joy, boosting self-worth, and cultivating meaningful, authentic relationships. By nurturing Self-Love, individuals can manifest abundance, experience well-being, and foster connections that resonate at the soul level.
Through her powerful workshops, retreats, private coaching sessions, and keynote speeches, Judith empowers people to unlock their true potential and live a life of greater purpose and happiness. Her signature programs, such as Fall In Love With Yourself, Fall In Love With Your Body, How to Find Your Soul Mate, and How To Manifest Your Desires, guide participants on a transformative journey to reconnect with their inner power and create a life filled with Love and fulfillment.
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Connect with Jennifer:
Begin with this free Scale of Sovereign Frequency Quiz for a reflection of how you are currently living your inner authority – how clarity, steadiness, direction, and leadership are already moving through your life:
https://www.jenniferspor.com/scale-of-sovereign-frequency/
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